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21-DAY VIDEO SERIES
WEEK ONE
Lesson #1: Monday’s Promise on Responsibility
- Accept complete responsibility for your circumstances and outcomes
- Stand up to YOWE (Your Own Worst Enemy)
- Choose to be a visionary living in the future
- Never be a victim living in the past
- 11 essential words for personal responsibility
- Distinguish between problems and predicaments
Lesson #2: Tuesday’s Promise on Accountability
- Personal Accountability is the antidote to entitlement and learned helplessness
- Personal accountability has an inner and outer dimension
- The Accountability Pyramid: Hierarchical, Cultural, Personal
- 6 Steps to enhance self esteem
- The most important speech you ever give
Lesson #3: Wednesday’s Promise on Determination
- The secret ingredient behind every great achievement
- The three times when determination is most important
- Practicing Contrarian Toughness
- 4 things you can do to be more determined
- 5 ways that you can make fear your allay
Lesson #4: Thursday’s Promise on Contribution
- Contribution is both charity and service
- Contribution is caring in action
- How contribution carves character
- 4 actions to lay the foundation for your legacy
- The difference between having fun and being happy
- The universal law of service and success
Lesson #5: Friday’s Promise on Resilience
- The 4 benefits of a commitment to resilience
- Why rejection is the Red Badge of Courage
- Why failure is the Medal of Honor
- Introduction to Prosilence
- 4 ways to handle brick walls
- The Never Fear, Never Quit Formula for courage and perseverance
- What to do when one door closes
Lesson #6: Saturday’s Promise on Perseverance
- Why your perspective of today is the platform for your future
- Cognitive and emotional requirements for a positive perspective
- How perspective shapes attitudes, choices, relationships, and career
- The importance of reference group selectivity
- Two questions that can radically shift your perspective
Lesson #7: Sunday’s Promise on Faith
- Faith is bigger than religious ritual or dogma
- The 4 Pillars of Faith
- Faith is the marriage of fidelity and trust
- How to be a Dionarap
- Why it’s most important when its hardest to do
- Coping with challenges that have no solution
WEEK TWO
Lesson #8: Monday’s Promise on Responsibility
- Being responsible for and being responsible to
- The difference between constructive responsibility and destructive guilt
- 3 key factors that have shaped you – and the one you can control
- Transforming hope into constructive optimism
- Get rid of these 5 Loser Attitudes
- Building upon the 4 levels of The Pyramid of Self-Belief
- 2 Things you must absolutely believe about yourself
Lesson #9: Tuesday’s Promise on Accountability
- Using the DDQ™ (Direction Deflection Question)
- Defining the multiple dimensions of your best self
- Enhancing awareness of divergence from best self
- Practical disciples for altering behavior
- Using the DDQ to confront YOWE
- Being accountable to future generations
Lesson #10: Wednesday’s Promise on Determination
- Getting from Nowhere to Now Here
- Fear is a reaction; courage is a decision
- The Difference between courageous and crazy
- 10 action steps to make fear work for you
- Sparking the energy for courageous actions
Lesson #11: Thursday’s Promise on Contribution
- Lessons from Johnny Appleseed and King Midas
- Avoiding the 7 success traps
- 4 commitments for a great life
- Finding your sweet spot
- The Passion-Performance Matrix
- Do you have a job or is it a calling?
Lesson #12: Friday’s Promise on Resilience
- Resilience is growing stronger, not just bouncing back
- 10 laws of adversity
- 9 Questions (and 32 sub-questions) to help you make the most of adversity
- What to do when one door closes
- You cannot undrop a dropped ice cream cone
Lesson #13: Saturday’s Promise on Perseverance
- How to remember a better past
- 3 cognitive distractions caused by high anxiety
- The 3 O’s of a positive perspective
- Avoid self-sabotaging metaphors
- 2 rules for when (and when not) to watch the news
- Never reject yourself on behalf of someone else
Lesson #14: Sunday’s Promise on Faith
- Two central tenets of every major spiritual tradition
- The health and happiness benefits of gratitude
- 6 actions to put more gratitude in your attitude
- A grudge is poison; forgiveness is a gift
- Using Metaphorical Visualization™ to set aside emotional baggage
WEEK THREE
Lesson #15: Monday’s Promise on Responsibility
- 2 mortal enemies of personal responsibility
- Fear is the root of all procrastination
- Debt is the financial equivalent of procrastination
- The 8-Get-It Formula for getting things done
- The power of ritual
Lesson #16: Tuesday’s Promise on Accountability
- How to detect and reject negative self-talk
- Automatic Negative Thinking is YOWE at work
- How the primordial “no” metastasizes
- Challenging a foe you cannot see
- Creating The Janitor in Your Attire™ to erase and replace negative self-talk
- How to use the bonus audio tracks on The Janitor in Your Attic
Lesson #17: Wednesday’s Promise on Determination
- The One Big Yes requires lots of little No’s
- 4 techniques to stay focused
- Why you should keep 2 to-do lists
- The importance of changing keystone habits
- Keeping a daily youroscope
- M=U+P formula for sustaining momentum (Urgency + Patience)
Lesson #18: Thursday’s Promise on Contribution
- A different take on management and leadership
- An effective antidote to anxiety and depression
- Proactive Extravagant Generosity in Small Ways
- Use the Nedlog Rule to take care of yourself
- Practice being wealthy by being generous
Lesson #19: Friday’s Promise on Resilience
- Resilience is the ultimate test of character strengths
- The paradox of motivation
- 8 disciplines of Prosilence
- 4 key factors for physical stamina
- Reframing obstacles and setbacks
- Changing the stories you tell yourself
- Using the EDQ (Emotional Deflection Question)
Lesson #20: Saturday’s Promise on Perseverance
- Choice of perspective determines how you see yourself and others,
- Choice of perspective determines the questions you ask and the answers you receive
- Perspective of today is the platform for future reality
- The inner and outer dimensions of perspective
- The Be Today, See Tomorrow Formula for success and happiness
- Interpreting coincidence to your best benefit
Lesson #21: Sunday’s Promise on Faith
- The faith in the future pillar of Sunday’s Promise
- Why you can remember the future more clearly and accurately than you can remember the past
- The 10-A Formula for transforming dreams and goals into Memories of the Future
- The interplay of vision and visualization
- 8 words that can spark your success